Monday, December 15, 2008

Friends &&. Acquaintances...Which One Are You?

I have best friends, friends and acquaintances. Each of them have a place in my life but some are about to get rearranged.

I, personally, am going through somethings right now with school and I wrote a note about it on facebook. I was seriously contemplating dropping out of college. Some people know me as to be dramatic, but I was really serious about this. I told myself, I'll give it to the end of next semester and if I can't get my act together, then I'm out of here. I wrote the note about how I felt and I tagged people that I know would respond, as well as they would have sound advice to give. I tagged one of my bestie's and she didn't respond and shorty was on facebook. I have no problem listening to you rant and rave about how your mother is a psycho bitch, how your boyfriend is a two-timing douche bag, or how you have to watch what you do because you're trying to get down with a sorority but when it comes to me, I'm expecting the same shit from you. You're rude to me on the phone by talking to other people that are around. If you want to talk to them, go ahead, don't call me and answer to every single thing they do. I HATE that shit.

There's that saying, "People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do." I love this girl to death, she is like family to me, but I'm wondering if this relationship is worth salvaging. There would be times where we would talk on the phone everyday, hang out all the time. I understand we're in college now, but there are times where I do not want to talk to her; I will let the phone ring out before picking up the phone because I just do NOT feel like dealing with her and I don't think that's good. I don't feel like talking to her about it because I'm just fed up with it.

I just know that when I come to Brooklyn after Christmas, I will see what's really good with this friendship and where she stands.


Pinky said...

oh boo! welllll, i KNOW i'm a best friend!! lol. and i know what u mean about that phone thing. SOO annoying! stick it out honey, if u need me, i'm always here!

Brothers Blog said...

I fall into different categories to different people. Bestfriend to 2. Friend to others and simply acquaitance to others. But if you call yourself a friend you must be there as a friend when you're needed.